What actually happens with a Pleasure Oracle?

So what actually takes place with a Pleasure Oracle...?

Speaking to the multidimensionality of what I do is best done with metaphors 

One way I like to look at the nature of my work is through the lens of Chemical Reactions.

When I have a client come in for session, there is a certain chemical reaction that takes place within their system during our time together.

I show up to session with my “chemicals”. My chemicals consist of me, everything that makes up my energy, as well as the energetic codes and frequencies that I channel from the divine in session (see What is channeling on my FAQ page).

The client shows up with their chemicals - which consist of them and their entirety as an energetic being. 

The “chemical composition” of their energy is made up of their body, their pleasure, their pain, their spirit, their eros, as well as how connected (or disconnected via shame) those aspects of self are to one another

In session, I am plugging my chemicals into them, and by doing so, a chemical reaction ensues.

The underlying function of all that I do is bringing clients into deeper communion with body, pleasure, spirit, and eros - essentially strengthening those connection points and bringing those aspects of self more online. This happens by igniting new pathways of connection as well as clearing the energetic distortions in their system that are interrupting and clogging those connection points. 

If you think back to chemistry class, when you introduce reactive chemicals to one another, a natural reaction takes place. Once the process is underway, that reaction has a natural life span - meaning it takes a certain amount of time for all the reactive molecules to change state. And I’m no chemist, but depending upon how much of each chemical is present, and the overall molecular composition of those chemicals, the time it takes for that specific reaction to complete varies.

As for the timing of the “reactions” that take place in session, I only have so much control.

In chemistry, some reactions complete quickly. Others require more time for all of the molecules to fully interact, change state, and settle into their new composition.

It’s very similar in session.

Sometimes a client books 90 minutes and the reaction completes in 75. In those cases, I’ll end the session early because the work is complete.

Other times, it becomes clear that more time is needed for the process to fully unfold. That’s why you’ll see options on my intake form for 120+ minute sessions or “as much time as we need”. I also check in during session and offer the option to extend in 15 minute increments when appropriate, allowing more space for the entirety of what’s trying to shift within the client to fully transform.

As my work evolves, I’m finding that rigid time constraints are becoming less aligned with the nature of what actually happens in session. I can absolutely work within 60 or 75 minute containers, but deeper reactions often require more spaciousness for Spirit, the body, and the energy to fully communicate and complete the process that’s unfolding.

Ultimately, I’m here in service to what the client is energetically available for, and what Spirit is attempting to move through them in that moment - not just the clock.

More and more, I’m realizing that the deepest reactions require at least 90 minutes of space to fully unfold. And just like in chemistry, creating the conditions for a reaction to happen isn’t only about combining the chemicals and waiting. There are often catalysts introduced to help the process intensify and fully come alive. 

Heat, often from the flame of a bunsen burner, is used to add “fuel” and help catalyze a reaction. Other catalysts may come in the form of movement (stirring a mixture) or even adding an additional chemical that helps the reaction take place more fully.

The “catalysts” that I introduce in session take several forms. I generate more “heat” in the session through different intensified body strokes, higher sensation contact, and changes in pace and rhythm when needed to catalyze the process even further. Conversely, I can turn “down the heat” and allow the reaction to settle and simmer a bit before catching and igniting the next wave.

I also introduce catalysts by guiding clients into various types of breath, sound, and movement (the 3 pathways to pleasure in Tantra) — think “Arch your back,” guided intensified breathing, or “Use sound on your exhales” during session. All of these help activate and move the client’s energy more powerfully, essentially “stirring up” their chemicals and allowing them to ignite and react more fully.

Finally, I can introduce “added chemicals” as catalysts by channeling them from Spirit. Sometimes a very specific chemical or frequency is needed for the ultimate fulfillment of a reaction — something incredibly precise comes through me to meet the client’s energy exactly as it needs to in order to facilitate the most potent reaction possible. This is where my channeled shapeshifting comes in.

Most recently, I channeled Coyote in session. I literally transformed into and fully embodied the eros of Coyote. Coyote is quick, sneaky, cunning, precise, and a trickster. These energies were exactly what was required to fully capture, encapsulate, and meet the entirety of my client’s energy — preventing any of the molecules from “hiding” or “running away” and avoiding the reaction that was needed for them.

These sessions are far from just a massage, and far from just a BDSM experience. This is Spirit-led erotic transformation channeled through my vessel to you.